Definition

What is Reality Check?

Whitney leaning against a railing on a downtown street

Reality Check is a clear reading of the “now,” void of distractions. By void, I do not mean they disappear. Instead, they are no longer distracting.

Consider the void a sense of heightened levels of clarity amidst all stimuli. It is a moment that yanks us to reality and allows us to see the present moment. Thus, our attention is honed and focused. We suddenly realize what matters most. By reverse engineering this phenomena I broke it down to three elements.

Below are the three elements of Reality Check:

Context

Context is a snapshot of a set of constraints that scope the moment. The scope represents the viewport through which we can see. Its limiting aspect focuses our attention. A Reality Check occasion is all but an intense realization of all the context dimensions we are in.

Time

The present is the last piece of the puzzle to capture the current context and to discuss it we need to talk about time. Time is the author of change. Without time, there is no change, or at least we cannot reason about it in any other way.

Observer

For the context to exist, someone needs to be aware of it. I am using observer here instead of mind or body to encapsulate the full picture of a conscious awareness of our experiences, feelings, thoughts, and body. The entirety of this system is aware.

Reality Check

In Pursuit of the Right Questions

Packed with self-empowerment tools and tactics, Reality Check will teach you how to view problems with new eyes, honing your attention and identifying possibilities. It will explain all three elements with thought-provoking stories and lessons.

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